an intentional amateur in many hobbies and sports, a professional metropolitan survivalist, a loving and beloved hubby, a proud and enthusiastic daddy, a rebellious but thoughtful son, an impatient but caring brother, a loyal and trustworthy pal, a romantic realist with social conscience, a diligent and creative employee with sense of responsibility, a sensitive and considerate boss, a self-defensive office politician, a modest michigan wolverine and hardcore go-blue football fan, a part-time not-for-profit marketplace contributor, a native shanghai blogger …